Ensuring a Safe and Joyful Christmas and New Year 

As we look forward to Christmas and the New Year, we need to be mindful that Safeguarding remains a priority. This time of year can be challenging for safeguarding our children, young people and adults at risk, and for those who struggle with mental ill-health and loneliness.

Schools are closed and people are on holiday from work; there is more free time available, and potentially increased risks.

Some points to consider:

Online Safety: Be aware of online risks such as exploitation, cyber bullying and scams. Encourage open communication about internet use and the importance of privacy/conduct.

Festive Events: With increased attendances at festive events, take time to verify credentials of staff and volunteers working with children, young people and adults at risk.

Strangers/Befrienders: Talk about the importance of not talking to strangers or checking out who a person is. Exploitation can occur in many shapes and forms, so it is important to consider this if children, young people or adults are spending a lot of time alone and wanting to connect with someone.  

Alcohol/Substance Misuse Awareness: There are many dangers of excessive alcohol consumption, substance misuse and peer pressure during Christmas gatherings.

Finances: The financial crisis is affecting many families making it an extremely challenging time of family disputes, debt, familial abuse and bullying. Hidden harms can increase due to tensions and stresses and parental issues may be magnified.

Domestic Abuse: Christmas and New Year comes with a lot of ideals that many households try to reach. This can bring families and groups closer together, but it can also cause tension. Whether it’s the abundance of alcohol or being cooped up for longer periods than usual, conflict can ensue.

Stress: Managing the expectations of those within your circle at Christmas is complicated, and there can be an increase in stress levels or changes in a person’s behaviour if they have negative experiences around this holiday time.

Loneliness: This isn’t just about physical isolation, it’s a subjective feeling of being disconnected from others. Social expectations emphasise spending time with loved ones, increasing those who are alone or estranged from family, to feel particularly isolated.

All these factors can impact physical, emotional and psychological wellbeing.

Please remain vigilant, reach out and take proactive steps. Safeguarding is everyone’s responsibility, every day of the year. For safeguarding contact details please visit: https://selsdonbaptist.org.uk/groups/349376/safeguarding.aspx

The Safeguarding Team wish you all a very blessed and joyous Christmas and a Happy New Year.

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